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Tricks of the Trade
The good news is – society has come a long way, as far acceptance of BDSM. The bad news is – there’s still a long way to go. Twenty years ago things were even more conservative than they are today. In...
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Being Released
I think it’s fair to say women with a submissive side tend to be highly loyal. Consider what a sub does – she gives up control to her Dom. Seriously, think about that for a minute. There is a real...
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"Do you wield a whip?"
I was asked a common question recently which was, “Do you wield a whip?” My answer was, “yes and no.” Let me elaborate. First, I should say – I have never, and would never strike a sub with a bullwhip....
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A Week in the Life
Recently I was asked, “Do you whip your sub every night?” Before I answer the question, my usualcaveat: all I can tell you about is my experiences. This is how it works for me, both now and in past...
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TPE versus 'bedroom' submissive
Today's comments are about living the lifestyle 24/7 (some call it Total Power Exchange or TPE), versus what others call a ‘bedroom’ submissive or a ‘scene’ submission. I have met some amazing couples...
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Try Wax Play
I’ve come to realize many of the questions I get are from people new to the lifestyle, and especially submissive women who have a wonderful (but unfortunately vanilla) boyfriend/husband.I know many of...
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One Possible Sign of a Bad Dom
I want to share one observation that I would say, if you experience a Dom doing this to you, proceed with caution. I won’t go as far as saying its outright wrong, because - again, I believe each D/s...
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Transition of a sub: From work-mode to play-mode
In previous posts I talked about TPE (Total Power Exchange) versus a ‘bedroom’ or ‘scene’ submissive. Personally I do not practice the lifestyle as a TPE, it’s not for me. My sub is what’s called a...
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Vanilla Marriage? Food for Thought:
I want to stress that the following comments are the opinion of one person – me. My advice and suggestions stem from observations I’ve had over the years. Do I know for sure that this can apply to you,...
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Fiction versus Fantasy: Putting Strong BDSM Erotica in Context
It is said that the average police officer will never fire his or her gun in the line of duty. Even after 30 years in the force, most will never experience an actual shootout.Yet if you watch a cop...
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Very proud to have reached 5,000 followers. These were some of my faves from the past year:1. Be happy when you post a selfie. Ten years from now you’ll come across the photo and think "I wish I looked...
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New BDSM novel:While the original and primary purpose of this blog was never to sell books, I can't help but showcase my brand new novel - 'Pleasure, Pain or Purpose' since it is now available for sale...
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What Exactly is a Real Dom?
I often see discussion in social media around the topic of, ‘What is a Real Dom?Obviously we know that Dom is short for Dominant – someone, male or female (Domme), who wants to be on the controlling...
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Take The QUIZ That Everyone is Talking About!
Take this 30 question quiz to see if you're a submissive. But first, the DISCLAIMER:Q U I Z - C O M I N G - S O O N (not ready yet)
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